What You Don’t See

“I’d never known that I could feel this broken and whole at once.”
― Rachel L. Schade, Silent Kingdom

For this post and the following two I will be working around the above image, “see no evil, hear no evil, speak no evil.”

If I did not reveal that I had these you would never know, yes physical challenges are noticeable, sometimes a person’s age, gender. The parts of me that you don’t see are those emotional scars.

All of the diagnostic tests cannot reveal these traces of past hurts, some a long time ago, others distant memories, and even some which seem they are fresh. These scars reminds me of all the times I have been lied about, used, abused, some can even be reopened like ripping the scab of a fresh wound.

They can at times cloud my judgement screaming at me, “watch out they will turn on you”, “careful they only want something then disappear” “have you forgotten all the names they have called you”. Yes, if I am not diligent there will be decisions made with a hand on the scale of judgment.

Then there are those now when I look at them that only brings a smile. Remembering the good times I spent with my grandfather singing, or the times I would just call my mother just to hear her voice. Yes, they are gone, the scar remains, but for me they are still here somewhere within my being.

One positive note about those unseen scars, they have taught me not to make snap judgments about my fellow human being. To treat them they way I want to be treated. Be understanding when they seem to stand afar off, it just might be that they have scars of their own, more than likely they do. When it comes to my speech is to try my best to keep it civil.

So dear reader I recognize that life brings scars, scars do not heal quickly, they can be like the ghosts that spoke to Scrooge in Charles Dickens writings.

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  1. Chel Owens

    I told my counselor I looked for the possible hurt people might cause me, so more power to you for working with both options (good and bad).

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    1. rts – Facing the Challenges of Mental Health

      Thanks Chelsea!

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  2. Biggeneralblog

    I like the true honesty you showed in the post. You can truly tell its authentic coming from a true place.Great post.

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    1. rts – Facing the Challenges of Mental Health

      Thank you! I can’t help asking, do you feel most posts are not authentic? I find that most are authentic in their writing.

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      1. Biggeneralblog

        I find yours authentic. I find some not all of the blogs I read do not usually come from an authentic place it. They feel like their written to follow trends, gain popularity and other hidden motives. For yours it is coming from a true place of someone who has truly lived what they are blogging about in order to help, educate others.

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      2. rts – Facing the Challenges of Mental Health

        I write from my experiences, no lists about “if you do this” just personal life.

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  3. cheriewhite

    Beautiful post, Dwain! My scars have definitely taught me not to judge people and to be more understanding!

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