Tag: Pain

  • Grieving & Mental Health

    No one can tell you what to expect or can offer a guide to grief. Because every relationship is so unique, no two people grieve the same way. And you have no idea how you are going to grieve till you are grieving. Alysia Reiner I am writing this post because of two people who…

  • The Unseen Scars & Mental Health

    “It has been said, ‘time heals all wounds.’ I do not agree. The wounds remain. In time, the mind, protecting its sanity, covers them with scar tissue and the pain lessens. But it is never gone.” ― Rose Fitzgerald Kennedy I have noticed lately all of the physical scars I have. One from the hip surgery,…

  • Trying My Best to Stay Positive

    “No matter what you’re going through, there’s a light at the end of the tunnel and it may seem hard to get to it but you can do it and just keep working towards it and you’ll find the positive side of things.” Demi Lovato My best friend made a comment to me , “I…

  • One of These Days Alice…(Ralph Cramden -The Honeymooners)

    Intolerance is a thing that causes war, pogroms, crucifixions, lynchings, and makes people cruel to little children and each other. It is responsible for most of the viciousness, violence, terror, and heart and soul breaking of the world. – Betty Smith Tolerance: 1 : capacity to endure pain or hardship : endurance, fortitude, stamina. 2a :…

  • How I Managed The Pain of Abuse – Continued

    “The best revenge is to be unlike him who performed the injury.”― Marcus Aurelius, Meditations “The act of forgiveness takes place in our own mind. It really has nothing to do with the other person.”Louise Hay What I am about to write, and what you are about to read, may not be your cup of tea. It…

  • Commentary – Can You Feel It?

    “When we honestly ask ourselves which person in our lives mean the most to us, we often find that it is those who, instead of giving advice, solutions, or cures, have chosen rather to share our pain and touch our wounds with a warm and tender hand. The friend who can be silent with us…

  • Oh What Relief!

     “Since chronic pain frequently cannot be seen or measured, unlike acute pain, doctors, colleagues, friends, or family may question or doubt your pain. In effect, it doesn’t matter if anyone believes you, but it is extremely important for you to acknowledge that all pain is real.”—Pain Recovery: How to Find Balance and Reduce Suffering from…

  • Your Silence Is Too Loud!

    It is very tempting to take the side of the perpetrator. All the perpetrator asks is that the bystander do nothing. He appeals to the universal desire to see, hear, and speak no evil. The victim, on the contrary, asks the bystander to share the burden of pain. The victim demands action, engagement, and remembering.Judith…

  • What You Don’t See

    If I did not reveal that I had these you would never know, yes physical challenges are noticeable, sometimes a person’s age, gender. The parts of me that you don’t see are those emotional scars.

  • Use To Your Own Detriment!

    “Hate is too great a burden to bear. It injures the hater more than it injures the hated.” ― Coretta Scott King I have a relative that must take baths in hate.  A grievance collector that never forgets who did what, who said what.  Revenge is something that this person give constant thought of how to…

  • Special Note

    For the past month or more I have been struggling with severe pain in my hip.  My doctor feels it is bursitis.  This has hampered my mobility around my house.  I haven’t been able to sit up for any great lengths of time. It is the reason for many reblogs on my blog. If I…

  • We Have A Lot of Heroes!

    Just be yourself and be upfront about your expectations and desires. Don’t be ambiguous and play hard to get. It doesn’t work. You’ll end up in the friend zone. Mike Posner Read more at https://www.brainyquote.com/topics/upfront-quotes I have not always been open in sharing my life, I mean I kept people at a distance.  I didn’t…

  • A Re Blog: Stop hiding your Pain biggeneralsports.wordpress.com

    Humans like to hide pain to show how tough of a man or woman there are.I am here to tell you stop hiding your pain and embrace it.Pain is like fire it can destroy you or be used to cook food for family gathering.It all depend on how you use it hiding it does not […]…